Don’t drink the Kool Aid

If you have lived in the US for the past 10 years or so; you probably have heard the term “Don’t drink the Kool Aid” It basically means don’t just do what everyone else is telling you; don’t follow the crowd; it mostly applies to the politics and media. For example if someone said they supported Obama’s policies; they’d be drinking the Kool- Aid because they were accepting them at face value without thinking for themselves.

A lot of people use the term and don’t realize the origins of the phrase or they use the term and simply don’t care. Well let me school you for those not in the know. The term comes from the People Temple; a religious cult in the late 1970s that originated out of the Bay area. A Pastor by the name of Jim Jones indoctrinated his congregation who were made of mostly Blacks families and the elderly through mental, emotional and sexual abuse ( the abuse also involved children).

Knowing that the law was after them; Pastor Jim Jones eventually convinced most of his followers to pack up everything and move from their base in San Fransisco to the jungles of Georgetown ,Guyana in a communal camp ( away from the eyes of the prying American government) There church members were forced to work for 12 or more hours a day; with little food; uncomfortable living conditions with no air in the hot sun; and the camp was surrounded by men patrolling the grounds with guns; ready to shoot anyone who escaped. There was also a loudspeaker of tapes of Jim Jone’s sermons ( who was also an amphetamine addict who would stay up for days at a time). The abuse continued throughout the camp; worsened because they could no longer be watched by the government; it was a dire situation. Eventually concerned families back home contacted congressman Leo Ryan; stating that their families were being held against their will and suspected abuses on the part of Jim Jones and demanded an investigation. Congressmen Ryan; along with all major media outlets; converged on the camp in Guyana to see the “People’s temple” for himself. He was given a big welcome with a show and lots of singing and happy campers. Leo Ryan said ‘ People really seem happy here” But shortly after that he was handed a note by one of the church members; saying that he and some others were requesting that they go back home with Congressmen Ryan; Jim Jones said everyone was free to leave . But as soon as the congressmen and those wanting to leave Jonestown tried to board the airplane in the small airfield; a truckload of some of Jone’s followers opened fire; killing the congressman and most of those journalists that had accompanied him.

In a recorded audio cassette tape found after the massacre; Jones quickly gathered all of his followers and declared “The congressman is dead and they’ll be after us” ‘The women, the children, the babies; they won’t let us survive” He said that the only option was what he termed “revolutionary suicide” because if they couldn’t live in peace; they’d die in peace and this was followed by the sound of cheering Jonestown followers and eerily the sound of crying babies in the background. Some protested this and calling Jim Jones “father, isn’t there another way” But the protests were soon shouted down by angry followers; anyone who questioned “Father” was a traitor and should be killed themselves. Just to make a note; the tape is a very disturbing listen but you ever hear it; you can also note the sound of a bleeding tape with a previously recording of a choir singing; it gives an even more chilling tone” Anyways Jim Jones says that they are all to drink cyanide; the poison will go down smoothly since it will be mixed with a fruit mixture ( or kool-aid as some call it). Towards the end of the tape; you can hear that they are already administering the poison to the babies ( in synergies; a drop or two into the babies mouth) It is one of the most haunting things I have ever heard and it is very difficult to listen to. The next day over 900 followers including women, children and elderly; lay dead in front of the camp. Now some call it suicide but I call it murder; these people didn’t want to die; they were given no choice; poison or a shot in the head; that is murder. Just an unspeakable tragedy that no one should ever make light of.

A little backstory when I was a kid; I saw this tv movie that started with a Pastor who had an integrated church in the 1950s and was fighting racism in Indiana ( The Jim Jones story) I remember finding it interesting until the middle of the movie when the Pastor started yelling at the congregation and claiming he was God; and he got crazier and crazier. Once they got to the camp; it was really upsetting to watch. At the time I thought it was fiction; I had no idea it was a true story and I just remember feeling shocked because it was so surreal; all those people abused and then killed by a Pastor. I also found it to be an fascinating story and researched it and there is so much to this story; so much about mind control and using religion to manipulate people and abuse of power; just so much. Even the fact that Jim Jones never even took the poison; he shot himself ( or had someone shoot him since he was such a coward)

The reason I wrote this today is because someone used that term with me online and I immediately blocked them and they don’t even know me or my story. But I find the term offensive for a number of reasons; people use that term flippantly; not caring that they are not only making light of suicide but murder; the murder of babies by a madman. I know what they are trying to say when they use that term but it’s uncalled for. There’s nothing funny about what happened at Jonestown; whether you consider it suicide or murder; 900 innocent people died. Have we become so cold that death is something we laugh about? How would you feel if someone you were close to took their lives and someone made a joke about or used it to make point; you’d be angry too. People just don’t think before they speak; they don’t care about the lives affected by suicide or the families of the victims of Jonestown. Maybe they’re ignorant and they don’t know their history ( I assume that is most likely the case) and you can say I’m preaching or pointing the finger but you know what; maybe calling people out is the only way they’ll every learn to be more sensitive towards others. I think we should retire the word “Drink the Kool Aid” out of vocabulary forever. With that I am done. I hope this post has made you think in a different but I doubt that it changed your mind. But if you can see it from a different perspective let me know in the comments.




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The movie I saw as a kid




12 thoughts on “Don’t drink the Kool Aid

  1. This hurt to read. I am so sorry that it bothered you so much when this person used this phrase. I think you’re right though, they probably had no idea where it came from, what it meant. I certainly never even realized where it came from till you just pointed it out and I am in shock — I vaguely recall this story of Jim Jones, but after reading your piece, and seeing some of the clips, I got it. Horrible.

    I wish you hadn’t blocked that person because, like me, your post taught me so much. Maybe they just didn’t know and having the chance to read your post would have been enlightening. I hope they are able to learn about it somehow.

    I’m always shocked by the things I learn and then, once I learn them I don’t forget. For example, did you know where the phrase: “..caught red-handed” comes from? I bet you do — now, one person once yelled at me for jokingly saying it — they reprimanded me for being insensitive to Native Americans and how that term was used to say “Indians” were stealing. So I apologized — and then, if you do a little research, the term goes back to 15th Century Scotland where people where caught after murdering someone and their hands were covered in blood. WOW! Clearly where we get a lot of phrases and vocabulary, stem from somewhere. And it seems as if more times than not, we may be offending someone. Even though I realize that being “caught red-handed” may have a flawed history and beginning, I just don’t say it anymore even in jest. I never want to offend people. But sometimes we just don’t know what we don’t know. If that makes any sense whatsoever.

    Thank you for teaching me about this — honestly, I grew up drinking “Kool-Aid”. We used to call it “bug juice”. We called it that because as it sat on the window sill, or on the porch and we played outside, bugs would rim the edge of the pitcher or pan of juice because of the sweetness and then drown and die. We’d all be playing like kids did back then, run up and wanna drink the sweet sugary water — and an adult would always say, “Don’t drink the Kool-Aid”. Hahaha! We’d drink the bug juice anyways, just taking out the few bugs that lingered. We were kids, we didn’t care. Somehow I never understood what that phrase meant because I didn’t get the logic, but now, because of your post, it makes complete sense. I just never knew this. Thank you Dave.

    Now, can you explain what this means and the origin? “If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.” Hahahaha! I have no idea what that means either, but I remember elders would say it too…

    Sending you a big hug — and just to let you know, grateful to read your work/writing. I always learn something.


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    1. What an amazing comment. Yes because I lost my brother to suicide; I am extremely hurt when someone makes light of suicide; even if they don’t know my story. I think maybe you’re right; you have to kindly teach people about where some phrases come to from so they can learn that they are hurtful; sadly most people don’t care. Some people would say I am being too sensitive but unless you have lost someone to suicide; its unimaginable to go through that and hear a phrase that reminds you of that loss. I really appreciate your kind words; you are a beautiful soul and I am so glad my writing resonates with you. I am always happy when you stop by my page and leave a comment; a blessing. I hope you are well and you and your family have a wonderful holidays. Please stop by my page anytime, friend


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      1. I love when people say I’m being “too sensitive”. I remind them that they are not being sensitive at all! And yes, yes, yes, I am sensitive! What kind of person would I be, if I weren’t? I always try my best to change people’s negatives, into a positive. It doesn’t always work, but on that line… yeah, it works!

        I am truly sorry to hear about your brother. I won’t even try to say anything brilliant or clever or comforting. I have no words to capture how I’m feeling. I just want to send you a hug, so consider me doing that right now in this cyber world way.

        Again, thank you for teaching me something. And yes, I love stopping by your blog. I don’t always comment, but I do enjoy the learning moment.

        Sweet holidays to you too my friend.


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  2. I did know where the term came from, but this is a great reminder post. Though I don’t think I have used it myself, I never thought anyone would be offended by it. There are so many racial epithets and misogynistic terms out there that this one slid under my radar. But you’re right ~ no one should be joking about suicide. It’s a horrible thing and this particular event was mind boggling in its awfulness. Those little babies! Well, that was murder not suicide. I’m glad you posted this. It gave me something different to think about. Thank you.

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    1. As hard as it was to write; I’m glad that helps someone to see something from a different perspective. Its a term used so much that it has been detached from it’s original meaning and hopefully once people find out it’s origins then maybe they will stop using it; although I doubt they will

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  3. Both liberals and conservatives throw that term at those with whom they disagree- as if the other people were automatons. I remember the Jonestown Massacre, vividly. It was the first real mass slaughter, outside of warfare, with which I became familiar, in real time.


  4. Until I read your blog I had never heard of the saying ‘Don’t Drink The Kool Aid’. I definitely knew about Jim Jones… church over in New Zealand in the late 70’s put on special screenings about it……absolutely terrible. Thank you for sharing .


    1. Oh I know. I remember being annoyed in high school at people that wore T-shirts of bands they didn’t even listen to. I was like “no way you listen to Nirvana lol” I am glad you liked the post and its all about thinking about where certain phrases come from and understand why it could be offensive if used.


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